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It can be extremely difficult to find out if someone you know and care for is or has harmed their partner, family member, or other individual. You could experience many emotions ranging from anger and confusion, to concern. You might also find that you want to help, but where do you start?

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I am a sexual assault survivor, where do I go from here?

After a sexual assault, survivors can experince a wide range of emotions and symptoms. Know that each survivor reacts to sexual violence in their own unique way. Some express their emotions while others prefer to keep their feelings inside. Some may tell others right away what happened, others will wait weeks, months, or even years before discussing the assault, if they ever choose to do so. To even begin thinking about what next steps and options are available to survivors can be overwhelming. Survivors can share as little or as much as they want when seeking support and also have a say in what resources and options work best for them.

Sometimes survivors may not know where to start, and that is ok! It may help to talk to someone on a confidential and free line about how they are feeling and what resources are available in their area. Even if  survivors may not be seeking resources at the moment, there are advocates and agencies who just want to provide that safe and listening space for survivors regardless if their assault happened recently or many years ago. We take the time to empathetically listen, to believe and validate without judgment. You are not alone. Click here to connect with someone on the Arizona Sexual and Domestic Violence Helpline through phone, text, chat, or email. Click here to find an Arizona domestic or sexual violence program in your area.

If you’re in need of immediate assistance:

The National Sexual Assault Hotline is available 24/7

1-800-656-4673

Is a medical forensic exam right for me?

If a sexual assault has recently happened and a survivor would like a medical exam to check their physical well being, there are resources that can provide those exams free of charge regardless of insurance status or ability to pay. If survivors want to know more about what a medical forensic exam is and consists of before deciding if that is an option for them, click here.

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Should I file a police report?

It is a survivor’s choice whether or not they file a police report after their assault. It may help an investigation if a report is made sooner, however, talking to police about the assault may be difficult or uncomfortable. When deciding to file a report, many fears and concerns may come up for a survivor: the fear of the attackers getting back at the survivor, feelings of embarrassment or shame, distrust of law enforcement, pressure from others not to tell and many more. Know those concerns and fears are real and valid. Survivors have a choice to have an advocate or a support person attend with them to file the report in the county or city where the assault happened.

The graphic below depicts a possible chain of events that may happen after a survivor decides to get an exam and/or to report to law enforcement.